very interesting opening lines.

in game one, i also don't like castling...
but if you don't want to castle and instead want to go g6, perhaps you should consider Kf8, so that when white takes twice on g6 it won't be with a check.
also, you might want to go Kg7.
I don't know if it's good, just an idea...

in game two, you said it wasn't well played, but I think you had good control over the position.
when you realize that Qh4 doesn't work, swapping queens looks like the logical continuation, securing a small but consistent and riskless edge.

You are probably right about game 2. I can be a bit pessimistic sometimes about my position. I guess I just feel better with the "good knight" in such positions but of course it's not necessarily that simple at times. White keeps rooks on and maybe has a slight slight edge.